Friends around you...without them apa macam?

      What are friends for..boleh hidup ke tanpa kawan? saya tak boleh.memang tak boleh..sunyi nya dunia without them..
      They fill up the empty space in your life..True friends give you the unconditional support , to share, to comfort, encourage, and a shoulder to cry on ..
      I have quite a number of close friends,to share my thoughts and my joy..but a few special ones to share the other side of me ,when I am down, sad and miserable

        Went out ,makan2, sembang2 and share stories..about cucu, about anak and menantu..macam tu la when you reach this age..
        This photo was taken last week. They are all teachers..Sembang2 tak sedar dah masuk magrib...apa lagi berlari la balik .he he.Cerita tak habis..to be continued till the next outing.

  Sorry tak tau wat happened.Gambar ni jadi so blur I can hardly see muka kami.. My best friend masa di college and sampai this very day...a Chinese lady tapi cakap melayu fasih, so fluent .
If I talk to her on the phone habis cepat one hour baru selesai..filled with laughter.gelak sampai kucing tepi pintu bilik  can run hide in the bushes..ingat pontianak terlepas ke apa...
   we shared everything, from the smallest to the biggest secret (if any he he)..

   I remember one incident during college where we were also taught some basic cooking. The lecturer was a Malay lady..garang macam harimau hilang anak..nasib tak baik I forgot my apron."
   "Go take a broom, a mop,  wat ever, cuci bilik ni, tingkap sekali ! ! "
   Never expect dah jadi anak dara pun was treated macam slave, cuci bilik is ok, tapi the harsh words yang tak ok.
   My BFF suddenly took off her apron, put it in her bag, went to the lecturer and said." Puan saya pun tak bawa apron "
  So dua2 kami jadi maid tak bertauliah, swept and mopped the floor,  cuci cermin tingkap semua.
She was ok, we worked in silence, but I was crying and sobbing not becos I had to do the cleaning but was so touched with wat she did..
   "menangis macam budak2..minggu depan tak bawak apron lagi saya suruh lari keliling padang"
  Ish ish I still remember her every word...kalau puan lecturer masih hidup lagi dan terbaca blog ni..please know that I am a teacher now tapi saya tak pernah treat anak murid saya macam hamba..becos I love them...

     I know this lady lama dah.sjak kami bekerja di bawah sat bumbung dulu.Now she has retired but endlessly still calling and sembang2.Sometimes I go take her out to catch up kalau lama tak jumpa.
      Last week called her and could hear her cucu's voice pot pet pot pet..

     I've known her since 1986. and still friends ketat. With her I shared many things. She has been tru many hard times in her life..still going strong..(5 years younger than me)
    The longest we can stand not going out together is 2 weeks....bila jumpa story each other sampai to the last minute...tak habis2.

            My nearest neighbours..the one in blue on the right is my next door neighbour. We often exchanged  home cooked food. Last time pernah buka gerai makan tepi rumah, where I was the regular (top most regular) customer. he he

              My childhood friend (holding her cucu ).Came over to my house few months ago. Where I took her out almost every day. ke Kuala Perlis was one of it. makan laksa kola and bought tit-bits .
            My mother and her late mum were best friends. The last time she came back nampak dia sedih becos she has just lost her husband..
           Now  hari2 tengok ada video menyanyi karaoke lagu2 lama dengan kawan2 dia di KLumpur. Enjoy nampak ? ..tak pa as long you're happy...jaga diri baik2..

                With neighbours..living a few steps away from my house.The one on the right selalu plan trips for us..Then she would call : "wei I dah booked ticket to so and so..." She knows our IC numbers too....

                          

                     With friends at school. Cheerful all the time. bergumbira sedia sedia..Except for the one behind me, the rest of them are merely in their early 30s. The one on the right ( in pink tudung sama age with my eldest girl..)

                My friend when I was in standard one till std 6. selalu juga jumpa
and share cerita anak menantu..

                Used to be my neighbour..selalu hantar buah salak to me..Now she has moved to about 2 kilometres away..

        I think I boleh jadi bodoh kalau tak jumpa my friends..yang mana satu pun tak pa.as long as boleh keluar sekejap..hilangkan semua stress yang menganggu hidup.
     Anything bothering you? well just go out mingle dengan kawan2, or read the quran, or write in your diary. I still do since many many many many  years ago. bukan apa, just to look back what happened in 1984 or 2002 etc etc..lots of fun reading them kan? and tell you wat I have them all tighly hidden in a bag only I know where..ha ha...

     Have a happy weekend my friends..I am off to KL tonite.visiting my children. See you after raya..